Unenlightenment

unenlightenment n : a lack of understanding [ant: enlightenment]

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Location: Baltimore, Maryland, United States

Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Borat - A few Things

Okay, so if you haven't figured out, I love Ali G and I love Borat (I mean in the plutonic sense you sicko).

Here is a video of Borat. The Kzackh embassy hates Borat and has gone one a whole frenzy to defend their country. The country shut down Borat's homepage in their country and even have a whole page on their embassy's website to counter the movie.

Borat countered by going in front of the Kzakh embassy itself and pretending to be a spokesman for the country. Here is the video that Borat did in DC:


Here is Borat on Conan:


Here are two articles from belief.net defending Borat:
Borat vs Jewface: The Politics of Jewish Humor
The Case for Borat

Investing - The Easy Way

I think everyone should read this article from money magazine. There is a lot to know when it comes to making smart financial descisions for your family to the point that it can be overwhelming. Money magazine has a short article that goes through the basics to make show you are making the right choices.

Here is the article: 7 Shortcuts for Major Money Hassles.

Monday, October 30, 2006

Group Therapy

This is the most hilarious video.

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

Prediction: The Democrats Will Take Control of Congress This Election

Okay, my prediction for the upcoming election is that the Democrats will make sweeping victories. We sort of are all predicting this. A Democrat takeover of congress doesn't sound like the worst thing because the Republicans haven't really performed all that well and need some awakening. I would like to make a general observation about this however. The Republicans took over congress in 1994. The difference with the Republican takeover and the future Democrat takeover is that the Republicans had tons of ideas before they took off, i.e. look at the Contract with America. Newt Gingrich (although a little odd and a pervert) was brilliant and really had vision. A Democrat takeover, however, will be done with the Democrats have no ideas. The Republicans will lose their elections because they have messed up, not because the Democrats really have anything to offer. People will vote against the Republicans, not for the Democrats.

Relevant NYT article: Guardedly, Democrats Are Daring to Believe.

The Proof that Baseball is the Boringiest Sport

Okay, this blog may sound unAmerican, so don't read further if you are easily offended. The NYT's article: Oh Yeah, There’s a Ballgame, Too describes how baseball stadiums are getting all fancy and that a baseball stadium needs to have restauraunts and all other types of distractions. I think the reason for this is that baseball is so boring. Nothing happens for hours and the big excitement is that someone hits a ball every hour.

Here is a relevant quote from the article :"Mike Plant, the head of baseball operations at Turner Field, the Braves’ home since 1997, said off-the-field wining, dining and commotion is a sign that fans come to the park to be entertained, and not just to cheer for their favorite team." That is right, people go to baseball games because of the entertainment that surrounds it in the stadium, not to actually watch the game.

Look at the picture below that was printed with the article.










Noone is watching the game whatsoever. That is because the game is boring and baseball is boring. Football and soccer is much better in this regards because their is constant action.

Nursing Your Child

I didn't know this.

From Daily Halacha:

Halacha encourages mothers to nurse their babies given the health benefits involved. A healthy child may nurse from the mother until after his fourth year, and a sick child, until after five years. After two years, however, a child who stops nursing for seventy-two hours may not resume nursing unless a health risk is involved.

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Talking in Shul and Clarifying Earlier Post on Standing During Tefillah (M"B)

Alan Laz brought down the M"B in his comments on the post. Thanks Laz.

M"B on standing during tefilah: AlanLaz said...
Mishna Berura: The reason is because we are paying attention and listening to the Shatz, and there is a concept of Shomeya K'Oneh, it is like we are davening ourselves...this was similarly the early minhag (to do so), but now, in our great sins, everyone does what they want and there are those that sit and talk. Within 4 Amos, according to everyone, it's forbidden to sit during Chazaras haShatz.

I was wondering what the world thinks about something by the way. I admit that I do sometimes just sit and talk in shul during davening. My thought process is that I feel that I only see my friends in shul so I have to talk to them then. I can't talk to them after shul because I need to rush home and help with the kids. I sort of feel that the whole reason that the rabbis made it that we have to daven three times a day in a minyan is so that we Jews hang out with each other a little while we are in galus. Otherwise, my only social network would be the goyim at work. At the same time, I do realize that talking is distruptive, so I only whisper.

This is about why one shouldn't go completely nutso when he hears talking in shul: Iggeres Hakodesh.

The Power of Chassidus

I learn Chassidus (Slonim, Chrenobyl, Breslov and Chabad). I eventually want to write a post (iyh in the near future) about what I think chassidus has to offer. You can make fun of me and says its a baal teshuva thing, but I think that there is something there. There is a certain fire that burns in a jew's neshama after he learns chassidus because it succintly reminds a person of profound ideas which then causes the person's avodah to be elevated. Here is the type of profound idea that I am talking about:

The Rebbe my father told someone at Yechidus:

"Ever since G-d told our father Avraham, `Go from your land etc.' (1) and it is then written `Avram kept travelling southward,' (2) we have the beginning of the mystery of Birurim.

By decree of Divine Providence man goes about his travels to the place where the "sparks" that he must purify await their redemption.

Tzadikim, who have vision, see where their Birurim await them and go there eliberately.

As for ordinary folk, The Cause of all causes and the Prime Mover (3) brings about various reasons and circumstances that bring these people to that place where lies their obligation to perform the Avoda of Birurim."

So what if I sit during shemonei esrei?

Yes, I always sit. I was surprised that the REMA says you have to stand. I wonder what the mishna berura says on this (I don't have one nearby):

From Rabbi Mansour (10/24):
"Is one required to stand during the Chazan's repetition of the Amida?

The Rama (Rabbi Moshe Isserles, Poland, 1525-1572), in his glosses to the Shulchan Aruch (124:4), cites the position of the Sefer Ha'minhagim requiring that one stand during the repetition of the Amida. This is the view as well of Rabbi Yitzchak Abuhav (Spain-Israel, 1433-1493), in his work Menorat Ha'ma'or (3:111; listen to audio for precise citation).

Some writers claimed that the Rambam (Rabbi Moshe Ben Maimon, Spain-North Africa, 1135-1204) held this opinion, too, as he writes (Hilchot Tefila 9:3), "Everyone stands and listens to the repetition of the Shali'ach Tzibur." However, Chacham Ovadia Hadaya (Israel, 1890-1969), in his work Yaskil Avdi (vol. 2, Orach Chayim, 2), refutes this claim, arguing that the word "Omedim" (literally, "standing") can also be used in reference to silence, in which case the Rambam here speaks not of standing during the repetition, but rather of remaining silent. Furthermore, had the Rambam held that one must stand during the repetition, the Rama would have cited the Rambam as the source for his ruling, rather than citing the Sefer Ha'minhagim.

Conversely, Rabbi Yaakov Chagiz (1620-1674), in his work Halchot Ketanot, suggests proving that one may sit during the repetition of the Amida from the Gemara's comment (in Masechet Yoma 87b) that Shemuel would rise for the recitation of Viduy (confessional) during the Yom Kippur prayer service. If Shemuel had to rise for the Viduy, then he must have been sitting during the repetition of the Amida, thus proving that one need not stand during the repetition. Others, however, refuted this proof, arguing that Shemuel perhaps sat specifically on Yom Kippur because he felt weak and frail as a result of fasting.

As for the final Halacha, Chacham David Yosef, in his work Halacha Berura (vol. 6, p. 271), writes that those who have the practice to stand for the repetition should continue this practice, as it is rooted in several Halachic sources. He adds, however, that somebody who feels ill or frail may be lenient and sit during the repetition even if he normally follows the practice to stand. Those who follow the practice to sit during the repetition have authorities on whom to rely and may continue doing so, and this is, indeed, the custom among most Sepharadim. However, a person who prays in a congregation where the practice is to stand during the Amida should abide by the local custom and stand, even if his personal practice is to sit. In the converse situation, one may stand during the repetition in a congregation where the custom is to sit."

Monday, October 23, 2006

This was a nice Holocaust Renion Story

By grandmother and great grandmother were reunited fifteen years after the Holocaust so I am always partial to these stories. I can't believe that these two were reunited after 65 years!

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There’s a photo slideshow: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/israel_holocaust_reunion

Kin reunited 65 years after Holocaust

By ARON HELLER, Associated Press WriterMon Sep 18, 5:46 PM ET

Hilda Shlick thought she lost nearly all her family in the Holocaust — until her Internet-savvy grandsons located her 81-year-old brother in Canada.

"After 65 years, I have found the sister who I love," Simon Glasberg said Monday in heavily accented English, his eyes filling with tears. "I can't stop kissing her."

Using the database of Holocaust victims at Yad Vashem, Israel's Holocaust memorial, two of Shlick's grandchildren, Benny and David, began unearthing a mystery spanning six decades and three continents.

While improved technology in recent years has made the task of tracking Holocaust survivors easier, fewer and fewer survivors remain as each year passes.

Scanning the database, the grandsons, both in their 20s, discovered an entry erroneously stating their grandmother had perished half a century earlier. That entry led them to other surviving relatives, who eventually brought about the siblings' emotional reunion Friday.

When Glasberg, who lives near Ottawa, Canada, saw his gray-haired little sister for the first time, he recognized her immediately, he said.

"I felt I couldn't talk. I just cried," he said. "You don't understand, 65 years ..." His voice trailed off.

Shlick, 75, said she too was overwhelmed by the discovery.

"For 65 years, I lived thinking I had no family besides one sister," she said.

Since Friday's reunion, the family bond has clearly been re-established, with the two elderly siblings playfully joking and reminiscing in a hearty mixture of Russian and Yiddish. Their large families have quickly become close.

The last time the two saw each other was in 1941, when the Glasberg family of Chernowitz, Romania, was separated after the Nazis invaded.

Hilda, then 10, escaped to Uzbekistan with her older sister Bertha. The rest of the family — parents Henia and Benzion, and brothers Simon, Mark, Karol and Eddie — stayed in Romania, finding refuge in a basement. The fate of one sister, Pepi, remains unknown. She disappeared and is presumed to have been killed by the Nazis.

Glasberg, his brothers and parents emigrated to Canada after the war ended. Shlick and her sister moved to Estonia, where Bertha died in 1970.

In 1998, Shlick immigrated to Israel. During a family conversation this summer, her grandsons learned her maiden name was Glasberg, and they began to investigate her past.

They logged onto the Yad Vashem Web site and found a page of testimony submitted in 1999 by her brother Karol, of Montreal, who wrote about his sister Hilda, who "perished in the Shoah."

Karol died that same year, but further searches through the Web site of the Montreal Burial Society and online forums of survivors of Chernowitz, Shlick's grandsons were able to track down his son, who filled in the picture of what happened to the divided family.

Shlick's parents died in the 1980s in Montreal, living well into their 90s, as did her brother Eddie, who died in 2004.

Mark Glasberg lives in Ottawa, but was too ill to travel to Israel to meet his sister. His son Irving, however, lives in Israel, just half an hour away from his missing relatives.

The new extended family will share the Jewish New Year together this weekend, catching up on a half-century of history.

Shlick said she plans to travel to Canada soon to see her other relatives and visit the graves of the parents she lost as a child.

Yad Vashem director Avner Shalev said the story should encourage Jews from around the world to check the database for their relatives' names and to submit pages of testimony for those who have been lost.

The database contains some 3 million names of Holocaust victims and has been visited by 10 million people since it went online in 2004.

Yad Vashem spokeswoman Estee Yaari said this was only the second known case of living siblings discovering each other through the database. Last June, two sisters who had survived the Holocaust and moved separately to Israel were reunited after 61 years.

Glasberg, though thrilled to find his sister, said the reunion was bittersweet because of all the years the family was divided.

"My poor parents, they always said, 'We wish we would find all our kids'" he said. "It is such a tragedy, but now I am so happy."

NOFX are Jewish

I recently discovered that NOFX, the punk rock band that I actually like listening to, is Jewish. Here is a link: NOFX are Jewish.

Next Week's Cover Story for the Baltimore Jewish News

Its cool belonging to a small community like Baltimore.

There was a local story here about one of the Brody brothers, a famous local family of five boys who do pest control, where one of the brody brothers was hit by a car while doing local mitzvoim by getting Baltimoreans to shake lulav. The perp that hit the youngest Brody, Bo Brody, sped away. With the help of the local nascent Baltimore shomrim, the other Brody brothers went and found the perp, cornered the perp in an alley, and waited for the police to come. The hit and run perp was sent to prison.

I told the local newspaper for the frum community, the Baltimore Jewish News, that they should do a story on this because the Brody brothers are famous, being on the entire back of Baltimore's local directory THE ERUV LIST and because our local shomrim (who are incidentally sort of controversial for having started without the approval of local rabbonim, unlike the NWCP that is run out of the agudah) were instrumental in helping find the perp. The shomrim somehow quickly interviewed people on the accident scene to get the details of what the car looked like, which led to the Brody brothers finding the perp.

I'll have more after the paper is distributed.

Friday, October 20, 2006

Hilarious Skit on Why Jews Have No Place Being at Home Depot

Here is the skit: Jewish.

I don't know who this comedian is.

The Zaide of The Owner of Monsey's Shevach Meats

This is from this week's Baltimore Jewish News:

Just prior to World War II in Switzerland, a law was passed that required Jews to stun chickens via electric shock before shechting them. It became questionable if, when the current was put through the chicken to make it unconscious, the chicken could possibly be dead from the shock prior to the shechting, and this led to the question of whteher a Jew should be concerned about this procedure.

The question was brought to the rabbis of the city and the Gedolim ruled that jews could not use this method of electric shock, and therefore kosher chicken had to be imported from another source, France.

In the heat of the war, since Jews could not import meat, they had none.

There was one shochet, however, who relied on a das yachid that allowed him to shecht the chickens. But when he did, the rav of the city came out against his doing so, and he said he would not be surprised if a grandchild of the man would be caught selling treif meat.

This shochet was the grandfather of...[the] former owner of Monsey's Shevach Meats.

The above story is recored in the sefer of responsa Chavatzeles HaSharon and was relayed to Batlimore Jewish News by Rabbi Moshe Heinemann.

Local Baltimore Story: As a 13 1/2-year-old teenager packaged in a 6-month-old baby’s body, Brooke’s bat mitzvah ceremony was more than a milestone



Here is the Story: Brooke Greenberg's Miracle Bat Mitzvah

Thursday, October 19, 2006

Letter asking forgiveness from owner of monsey treif meat scandal store

Begging Forgiveness.

I am standing before you, a vessel filled with shame and humiliation, to confess and express my remorse for the appalling sin I have committed, causing the multitudes to sin.

Woe is for me for I sinned, violating the mitzvos of Hashem, for I gave to eat neveilah and tereifah to frum and devoted Yidden, causing the hearts of Yidden which are open and receptive to kedusha and taharah to become numb and insensitive.

Woe is to me, for I caused the Shechina to depart from Israel, and woe is to me, for I caused a public chillul Hashem.

But, Yiddishe kinder, you should know that this meat was just a small portion of the meat in my store and I did not sell any of this meat to other establishements. I did not mean to cause you to stumble. But for several years I gave in to temptation of the yetser harah which tried to snare me day after day, and I was not strong enough to resist.

I am fully aware that I caused grief and monetary loss through the need of koshering vessels and discarding the meat in the house. The halacha requires me to reimburse the people who suffered damage. However, because of the large number of people who were affected, I am not able to refund the money. Because of this I am heartbroken, and, broken in spirit I appeal to you, begging to forgive me and to have pity on my neshama and my spirit, for I am seeking to return b'teshuvah sheleima. I implore you to adopt the middah of Hakadosh Baruch Hu, Haposeach sha'ar ledof'kei b'teshuva. " Who opens the gate to those who knock in ttshuvah," and forgive me with mechilah gemurah.

Because of my great sins I have been banished from those dearest to me, my home, and my community, living na venad, "restless and isolated". I accept and take upon myself the complete mehalach ha'teshuvah that is being prepared for me by Gedolei Yisroel.

Since it is forbidden to derive any benefit form the non-kosher profit I earned, I undertake to set aside a substantial sum of money to be distributed to needy Yidden under the guidance and supervision of Gedolei Yisrael.

I daven to Avinu Shebashematim to have mercy on me, as a father has mercy on his son who rebelled against him. And when his son return to his father, tearfully begging his forgiveness, it is the nature of the father to have compassion on his son, receiving him and accepting him and accepting his teshuvah sheleimah.

I hope the community will also have compassion on me.

Written in shame,

Name, Abbreviation of the last name

P.S. The text of this letter was seen and approved by Hara Hagaon Harav Yeshoshua Neuwirth, Shlita.

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Wednesday, October 18, 2006

For The "Stay-At-Home House Wife"

Here is a good article from chabad's website.

"So, What Do You Do?"
By Chana (Jenny) Weisberg
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As the daughter of a father who is a cancer researcher, and a mother who is a psychiatrist, I always assumed that I too would find an inspiring, full-time profession.

Several years back, though, I realized that I am not like my parents the doctors, or my brother the lawyer, or my sister the scientist, or my husband the teacher.

I was reminded of this fact last night at a wedding, when a fellow guest innocently asked me, "So, what do you do?" As always, when asked this question, I forcibly had to restrain myself from grimacing.

On my Top Ten List of Irritating Comments, "So what do you do?" ranks smack in the middle between the one from the woman who cooed at my newborn baby girl (my fourth) and said, "Better luck next time," and the one from a fashion-model thin acquaintance who once every few months looks me up and down and appraises, "You've lost a lot of weight since the last time I saw you. You were getting so heavy I didn't even recognize you!"

My sense is that the young mothers who like the question "So, what do you do," are a rare breed. This is because most of us recognize that what we say we do is far less impressive than what we really do.

All of us receptionists, and English teachers, and editors, and yes, even surgeons and stockbrokers, know that you just can't do justice to everything a mother does in just one word.

Today, if I must write down my profession on a questionnaire at a doctor's office, I usually write "housewife," although this is really an inside joke between me and myself that never fails to make me chuckle.

It is true that I spend the vast majority of my life in my house and I am a devoted wife. With that said, I am still very far from being the domestic goddess the term "housewife" evokes, who spends her days ironing and mulling over the pros and cons of competing brands of floor soap.

When I meet new people, like the guest at the wedding last night, and they ask me what I do, I tell them that I am a stay-home mother. While this answer isn't ridiculous enough to make me giggle as soon as the other person's back is turned, and I do spend much of my life caring for the physical and emotional needs of my children, this is still not a full representation of the way I spend my days.

If I had to explain most accurately what I do, it would be that I am a mother who freelances. The difference between me and other freelancers you know is that usually the word freelance is followed by a noun: freelance artists, freelance journalists, freelance photographers. I am just a mother who freelances, period. The noun that follows freelance depends on the day.

To clarify, my central role in life is being a mother. Holding my baby on my lap as I type these words, listening intently as my older daughters share the latest schoolbus scandals, stuffing children's laundry in drawers, kissing little scraped elbows and healing them with bandaids, and wiping away my children's tears and giving them hope when they have absolutely none left.

But as a mother who freelances, I don't stop there. When a single friend wants to get my feedback about someone she is dating seriously, I am a freelance dating mentor. When my husband asks me to read over a letter he has written, I am a freelance proofreader. When a poor mother desperately in need of thousands of dollars of dental treatments comes to me in tears, I am a freelance medical researcher and fundraiser. When I think of an idea that I want to share with the world, I am a freelance writer.

The important contribution of the mother who freelances reminds me of a concept in Jewish mysticism relating to the Torah scroll. When most of us think of a page of Torah, we envision the words written in black ink. But Jewish mysticism teaches us that the parchment that the words are written on, or white fire, is just as important as the words themselves, or black fire.

In fact, the white fire between the words is considered a higher form of Torah, which transcends the concrete, limited, contracted black fire.

This is how I see, as well, the role of the freelancing Jewish mother. While society needs doctors to heal the sick, lawyers to settle legal disagreements, and architects to design houses, the vast majority of life takes place beyond these concrete, limited, contracted professions.

Just as the space taken up by the parchment is twice as large as the space taken up by the words in a Torah scroll, the vast majority of existence is spent maneuvering the white fire of life that exists between the professions of those who glide with ease through wedding banter.

It is in the white fire that we hug our children, and Email our sisters-in-law, and braid Challah for our Shabbat guests, and call our husbands in the middle of the day just to say hello.

The white fire is the domain of the day-to-day, behind-the-scenes work of Jewish mothers, as we sustain our families and communities and our ancient people. This is the power of the mother who freelances (and isn't every Jewish mother, in fact, a mother who freelances?)

As former first lady Barbara Bush once told an audience of young women: "As important as your obligations as a doctor, lawyer, or business leader will be, you are a human being first, and those human connections- with spouses, with children, with friends- are the most important investments you will ever make... Our success as a society depends not on what happens in the White House but on what happens inside your house."

Recently, my husband was telling me about a rabbi he met who spends eighteen hours a day studying Torah, teaching, and helping people in need. Impressed, I said, "It's people like this rabbi who carry the Jewish people on their shoulders."

And my husband said quietly, as if to himself, "You're right. Although, the funny thing is that I've always thought that it is the mothers who carry the Jewish people on their shoulders."

Now that's a mouthful for a business card.

Tuesday, October 17, 2006

Shake Your Lulav

I just got back to Baltimore and found this really funny video on Laz-A-fare. Here it is:

Thursday, October 12, 2006

Across Europe, Worries on Islam Spread to Center

IS THE WORLD FINALLY CATCHING ON?

Across Europe, Worries on Islam Spread to Center

Published: October 11, 2006 (IN NYT)
BRUSSELS, Oct. 10 — Europe appears to be crossing an invisible line regarding its Muslim minorities: more people in the political mainstream are arguing that Islam cannot be reconciled with European values.

“You saw what happened with the pope,” said Patrick Gonman, 43, the owner of Raga, a funky wine bar in downtown Antwerp, 25 miles from here. “He said Islam is an aggressive religion. And the next day they kill a nun somewhere and make his point.

“Rationality is gone.”

Mr. Gonman is hardly an extremist. In fact, he organized a protest last week in which 20 bars and restaurants closed on the night when a far-right party with an anti-Muslim message held a rally nearby.

His worry is shared by centrists across Europe angry at terror attacks in the name of religion on a continent that has largely abandoned it, and disturbed that any criticism of Islam or Muslim immigration provokes threats of violence.

For years those who raised their voices were mostly on the far right. Now those normally seen as moderates — ordinary people as well as politicians — are asking whether once unquestioned values of tolerance and multiculturalism should have limits.

Former Foreign Secretary Jack Straw of Britain, a prominent Labor politician, seemed to sum up the moment when he wrote last week that he felt uncomfortable addressing women whose faces were covered with a veil. The veil, he wrote, is a “visible statement of separation and difference.”

When Pope Benedict XVI made the speech last month that included a quotation calling aspects of Islam “evil and inhuman,” it seemed to unleash such feelings. Muslims berated him for stigmatizing their culture, while non-Muslims applauded him for bravely speaking a hard truth.

The line between open criticism of another group or religion and bigotry can be a thin one, and many Muslims worry that it is being crossed more and more.

Whatever the motivations, “the reality is that views on both sides are becoming more extreme,” said Imam Wahid Pedersen, a prominent Dane who is a convert to Islam. “It has become politically correct to attack Islam, and this is making it hard for moderates on both sides to remain reasonable.” Mr. Pedersen fears that onetime moderates are baiting Muslims, the very people they say should integrate into Europe.

The worries about extremism are real. The Belgian far-right party, Vlaams Belang, took 20.5 percent of the vote in city elections last Sunday, five percentage points higher than in 2000. In Antwerp, its base, though, its performance improved barely, suggesting to some experts that its power might be peaking.

In Austria this month, right-wing parties also polled well, on a campaign promise that had rarely been made openly: that Austria should start to deport its immigrants. Vlaams Belang, too, has suggested “repatriation” for immigrants who do not made greater efforts to integrate.

The idea is unthinkable to mainstream leaders, but many Muslims still fear that the day — or at least a debate on the topic — may be a terror attack away.

“I think the time will come,” said Amir Shafe, 34, a Pakistani who earns a good living selling clothes at a market in Antwerp. He deplores terrorism and said he himself did not sense hostility in Belgium. But he said, “We are now thinking of going back to our country, before that time comes.”

Many experts note that there is a deep and troubled history between Islam and Europe, with the Crusaders and the Ottoman Empire jostling each other for centuries and bloodily defining the boundaries of Christianity and Islam. A sense of guilt over Europe’s colonial past and then World War II, when intolerance exploded into mass murder, allowed a large migration to occur without any uncomfortable debates over the real differences between migrant and host.

Then the terror attacks of Sept. 11, 2001, jolted Europe into new awareness and worry.

The subsequent bombings in Madrid and London, and the murder of the Dutch filmmaker Theo van Gogh by a Dutch-born Moroccan stand as examples of the extreme. But many Europeans — even those who generally support immigration — have begun talking more bluntly about cultural differences, specifically about Muslims’ deep religious beliefs and social values, which are far more conservative than those of most Europeans on issues like women’s rights and homosexuality.

“A lot of people, progressive ones — we are not talking about nationalists or the extreme right — are saying, ‘Now we have this religion, it plays a role and it challenges our assumptions about what we learned in the 60’s and 70’s,’ ” said Joost Lagendik, a Dutch member of the European Parliament for the Green Left Party, who is active on Muslim issues.

“So there is this fear,” he said, “that we are being transported back in a time machine where we have to explain to our immigrants that there is equality between men and women, and gays should be treated properly. Now there is the idea we have to do it again.”

Now Europeans are discussing the limits of tolerance, the right with increasing stridency and the left with trepidation.

Austrians in their recent election complained about public schools in Vienna being nearly full with Muslim students and blamed the successive governments that allowed it to happen.

Some Dutch Muslims have expressed support for insurgents in Iraq over Dutch peacekeepers there, on the theory that their prime loyalty is to a Muslim country under invasion.

So strong is the fear that Dutch values of tolerance are under siege that the government last winter introduced a primer on those values for prospective newcomers to Dutch life: a DVD briefly showing topless women and two men kissing. The film does not explicitly mention Muslims, but its target audience is as clear as its message: embrace our culture or leave.

Perhaps most wrenching has been the issue of free speech and expression, and the growing fear that any criticism of Islam could provoke violence.

In France last month, a high school teacher went into hiding after receiving death threats for writing an article calling the Prophet Muhammad “a merciless warlord, a looter, a mass murderer of Jews and a polygamist.” In Germany a Mozart opera with a scene of Muhammad’s severed head was canceled because of security fears.

With each incident, mainstream leaders are speaking more plainly. “Self-censorship does not help us against people who want to practice violence in the name of Islam,” Chancellor Angela Merkel of Germany said in criticizing the opera’s cancellation. “It makes no sense to retreat.”

The backlash is revealing itself in other ways. Last month the British home secretary, John Reid, called on Muslim parents to keep a close watch on their children. “There’s no nice way of saying this,” he told a Muslim group in East London. “These fanatics are looking to groom and brainwash children, including your children, for suicide bombing, grooming them to kill themselves to murder others.”

Many Muslims say this new mood is suddenly imposing expectations that never existed before that Muslims be exactly like their European hosts.

Dyab Abou Jahjah, a Lebanese-born activist here in Belgium, said that for years Europeans had emphasized “citizenship and human rights,” the notion that Muslim immigrants had the responsibility to obey the law but could otherwise live with their traditions.

“Then someone comes and says it’s different than that,” said Mr. Jahjah, who opposes assimilation. “You have to dump your culture and religion. It’s a different deal now.”

Lianne Duinberke, 34, who works at a market in the racially mixed northern section of Antwerp, said: “Before I was very eager to tell people I was married to a Muslim. Now I hesitate.” She has been with her husband, a Tunisian, for 12 years, and they have three children.

Many Europeans, she said, have not been accepting of Muslims, especially since 9/11. On the other hand, she said, Muslims truly are different culturally: No amount of explanation about free speech could convince her husband that the publication of cartoons lampooning Muhammad in a Danish newspaper was in any way justified.

When asked if she was optimistic or pessimistic about the future of Muslim immigration in Europe , she found it hard to answer. She finally gave a defeated smile. “I am trying to be optimistic,” she said. “But if you see the global problems before the people, then you really can’t be.”

Synagogue Planned For Temple Mount, Hashemites to Add Minaret

The synagogue would be build upon the Temple Mount, but in an area that is indisputably not within the areas that require immersion and other preparations, according to Jewish law.

Ariel says that the synagogue would not change the Muslim status quo on the mount, which is home to the Al-Aksa Mosque and the Dome of the Rock.

“This is not a new idea,” Ariel stressed, “it has been brought up and considered countless times since the [1967] Six Day War [during which the Temple Mount was liberated from Jordanian occupation –ed.].”

The plan will be submitted to the Jerusalem municipality and the Committee for Design and Construction for approval. Ariel says that every aspect of the plan will be submitted to leading Torah scholars for approval.

The National Union MK, who visited the Temple Mount himself Monday, said that such a plan was an opportunity for the Muslim world to prove it is capable of rising above the violence and intolerance that have surfaced in the past year as a result of papal remarks and political cartoon portraying Islam’s founder Muhammad. Referring to Ariel's visit to the holy site, MK Talab el-Sana (Ta’al) said the “provocation” would bring nothing but “war and bloodshed.”

MK Ariel points out that every ruling by Israel’s Supreme Court regarding the matter of the Temple Mount has recognized the right of every Jew to pray on the Temple Mount. “This is rectification of a historic injustice, much more than the transport to Israel of [Theodore] Herzl’s children’s bones [as was done recently, in accordance with his wishes ed.].

"Since the destruction of the Holy Temple, the loss of our independence and the start of our exile and oppression during the destruction of the Second Temple, the Jewish presence at the site of our temple has always been an unmistakable symbol. The Romans, Byzantines and Crusaders expelled us and prevented Jews from entering Jerusalem, because they couldn’t stand to allow the Jewish nation to serve its G-d at this holy site. This synagogue will not interfere with believing Moslems who wish to pray at the Al-Aksa Mosque. On the contrary, this is an opportunity for the Moslem world to demonstrate and prove that it is tolerant enough."

Meanwhile, Jordan's King Abdullah II has donated a huge carpet to the Al-Aqsa Mosque and has announced a contest to design a fifth minaret for the mosque. The existing minarets have been affixed with green neon lights in recent years, dominating the Jerusalem skyline. The planned minaret would be constructed along the eastern wall of the Temple Mount and would be clearly visible towering above the Western Wall.

The Machlokes Regarding Kapparos

Here is a brief discussion on how the achronim view kapparos:

"The practice was vehemently opposed by various rabbis throughout Jewish history. The Rashba (Solomon ben Aderet, 1235-1310) relates that he found the custom to resemble the forbidden rites of the Amorites, proscribed by the Torah. “I distanced myself from this custom greatly and instructed that it be nullified, and with grace from Heaven my words were heard and the practice no longer remains in our city,” he wrote.

Rabbi Yosef Karo, in the Shulchan Aruch, his major work on Jewish law, wrote that the custom should not be performed and warned that it had parallels to polytheistic rites. Rabbi Moses Isserles, the Ramah, author of a major commentary on Karo’s work, disagrees, saying the practice is an ancient custom and should not be changed. Kabbalists such as Rabbi Yitzchak Luria of Tzfat were said to have embraced the custom and attached deep mystical significance to it. Other Kabbalists, such as the Ramban (Nachmanides), were opposed to the ritual as well.

Most of the critics, and many of the ritual’s supporters as well, worried that people would misunderstand the significance of the ritual, thinking it involved a transfer of a person's sins to a bird to then be eradicated. The Mishna Berura reminds those who perform it to remember that it is no substitute for true repentance.

Some Jews oppose the use of chickens on the grounds of the Biblical ban on tza'ar ba'alei chayim, causing pain to animals, but it is far from certain that the waved chickens are caused any more distress in the ritual than they would be prior to any slaughter.

Those uneasy with the use of live fowl perform the ritual with money instead, giving the monetary equivalent of a slaughtered chicken (15 shekels, $3.50) to charity on behalf of every family member. Communities that historically did not have chickens would use geese, fish or plants – but not doves or any other animals that were offered in the Holy Temple, so as not to resemble Temple sacrifices."

Thursday, October 05, 2006

Happy Succos

I will take a break and return to the blog after succos. I hope everyone has a great one. One tip for simchas torah: mashke makes it more fun.

Internet Phenomenon Part II: Ellen Feiss

SO...I was looking for pictures of the kotel to put as the background on my desktop and I came upon a funny thing - a picture of the Kotel with a girl's name - Ellen Feiss on bangitout.com (check out the link for some funny pictures). I never heard of this person and I am always curious and it turns out that this person Ellen Feiss became an internet phenomenon and eventually famous after appearing in the following apple commercial:




I guess the whole thing was the she looked like she was on drugs in the commercial and america likes drugs, so she became famous (supposedly she really was just on benadryl for allergies).

Here is a litte more info on her from wikipedia: Ellen Feiss.

She only did one interview after she became famous and it was for the University Brown. Its hard to find on the internet, but here it is: Ellen Feiss Interview.

Eventually a french movie company hired to make a movie and here is the movie's site: Bed and Breakfast.

I am going to name my son Ishmael

Halacha of the Day (8/11/2006) By Rabbi Eli Mansour

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Description: The Importance and Some Issues Regarding Names, and The Requirement To Annotate When Saying The Name of An Evil Person


The verse states in the Book of Mishlei (10:7), "The memory of a Tzadik is a blessing, and the name of the wicked shall rot." The Gemara derives from the second half of this verse - "the name of the wicked shall rot" - that when one mentions the name of a wicked person, he must curse that person's name, because the name itself is associated with the evil qualities of the individual. This concept underlies the widespread practice for children to make noise upon hearing the name "Haman" during the Megilla reading, as we are enjoined to denigrate the name associated with a wicked individual.

For this reason, one must ensure not to give his child the name of a wicked person. The Gemara tells of a child whose parents named him Do'eg, the name of a wicked person who lived during the time of King Shaul, and terrible misfortune befell this child as a result. Furthermore, the Chatam Sofer (Rabbi Moshe Sofer, Hungary, 1762-1839) commented, Helek 4:22, that Korach, who led a mutiny against the authority of Moshe Rabbenu in the wilderness, was named after Esav's son Korach (Bereishit 36:14), and because he was given the name of a wicked person, that contributed in him becoming a sinner.

One might ask, if, indeed, naming a child after a sinful person has very negative repercussions for his character, how is it that one of the greatest Tanna'im was named Rabbi Yishmael? Yishmael, Avraham's first son, was a sinner; how could somebody named "Yishmael" emerge as one of the most important figures in the Talmud?

Some answered that Yishmael repented before his death, and so his name is no longer associated with sin and immorality. Furthermore, the Chid"a (Rabbi Chayim Yosef David Azulai, Israel, 1724-1806) in his sefer 'Shem HaGedolim' explains that if a name is intrinsically meaningful and appropriate, then we may disregard the fact that it had been the name of a wicked person. The name "Yishmael" means "God shall hear" our prayers, and therefore it may be used and will not adversely affect the child's character, despite the fact that it had been the name of an evil person.


The Chid"a applies this rule also to the name "Eliezer," with which Moshe named his second son. This had been the name of Avraham's servant, whom the Sages describe in one source as "cursed." Moshe was nevertheless justified in using this name for his son because of its meaning: "My God assists." Given the religious meaning and significance of the name Eliezer, it is not directly associated with the "cursed" person who had been known by that name.

The Chid"a also cites the ruling of the Mabit (Rabbi Moshe of Trani, Turkey-Israel, 1505-1580) that one should not name his child after personalities that lived before Avraham Avinu. Avraham Avinu began the period of "Jewish names," and it is therefore inappropriate to use the name of somebody who lived before Avraham in naming one's child. Thus, one who wishes to name his child "Noach" or "Adam" should first consult with his Rabbi for guidance.
Finally, the Chid"a presents a list of names that one should not use when conducting a "Shinui Ha'shem," when one changes a person's name in situations of illness, Heaven forbid. Once again, one who wishes to change a person's name should consult with his Rabbi for guidance.

In general, choosing a name for one's child is a most serious matter that must not be taken lightly, given the name's profound impact upon a child's character. One must therefore choose a name very carefully and consult with his Rabbi to ensure that a suitable and appropriate name is selected.

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

Fatah, Hamas Preparing for War With Israel

Fatah, Hamas Preparing for War With Israel
20:29 Oct 03, '06 / 11 Tishrei 5767
by Hillel Fendel

Hamas has smuggled up to 1,300 tons of weapons from Egypt into Gaza and is preparing for the option of launching a large-scale conflict with Israel. So states a Fatah report quoted by WorldNetDaily.

The weapons, WND reports, include between several hundred and 1,300 tons of advanced rockets; anti-tank and anti-aircraft missiles; rocket propelled grenades; raw explosives; rifles; ammunition; and other heavy weaponry.

Israel has long complained that the arrangements at the Egypt-Gaza border crossing are not satisfactory, and that the European monitors are ineffectual in stopping the smuggling. Then-Prime Minister Ariel Sharon agreed to the deal last November, after U.S. Secretary of State Condoleeza Rice arrived in the region and gave her stamp of approval.

WND's Aaron Klein quotes Abu Ahmed, leader of the northern Gaza chapter of
the Al Aqsa Martyrs Brigades terror group, as saying the terrorists are working towards, and succeeding in, turning Gaza into a Hizbullah-like threat against Israel.

"We learned from Hizbullah's victory that Israel can be defeated if we know
how to hit them and if we are well prepared," Abu Ahmed said. "We are
importing rockets and the knowledge to launch them and we are also making
many plans for battle."

WND also quotes another terrorist leader - Abu Abdullah, reported to be a top member of the Izaddin Al-Kassam Brigades of Hamas - detailing the preparations for war against Israel.

"In the last 15 months," Abu Adullah said, " though the fighters of Hamas kept the ceasefire, we did not stop making important advancements and professional training on the military level. In the future, after Hamas is obliged to stop the ceasefire, the world shall see our new military capabilities." He said that Hamas and Hizbullah, which has cells in Sinai, are cooperating in importing rockets and guerilla training.

Kidnapping Thwarted in Kiryat Sefer!

Kidnapping Thwarted in Kiryat Sefer

A group of Arabs attempted to kidnap a Jewish man Wednesday in the hareidi-religious Yesha town of Kiryat Sefer, near Modiin. The man repelled the attackers using his personal weapon.

The man, who owns a cement factory, was approached in the morning hours by six Arab men, four of them armed. The man acted quickly and opened fire with his personal pistol in their direction. One of the kidnappers was hit, the Jewish man later said, and the rest fled in the direction of PA-controlled villages in the region.

IDF forces are sweeping the area, located just across the pre-1967 Green Line border, searching for the armed men. Police found several items dropped by the fleeing men along their escape route. A hole was found in the fence around the factory, along with a pistol, a trail of blood and plastic handcuffs.

Tuesday, October 03, 2006

Guest Post for Sukkos: Baltimore Achdus by Simchas Torah

Here is my second ever guest post. I am so excited! You may know cubicle king from famous guest post such as Sfardi vs. Ashkenazi Weddings.

The 3rd Hakafah - by Cubicle King

Too often in life we look for those things that divide us. Instead of looking for what we have in common with our fellow Jews we look for those insignificant externalities that make us different. Unfortunately, sometimes it takes a war, a calamity, or some major anti-semitic incident for Jews to put aside their differences and unite with each other.

Baltimore is a very unique town that has a very diverse Orthodox-Jewish population. I personally daven at a very Modern Orthodox / Religious Zionist shul (Suburban Orthodox) that happens to be situated right across the street from a more right wing “yeshivish” congregation (Darchei Tzedek) . Generally speaking the two synagogues have a very warm and cordial relationship and it is not uncommon for the shuls to share members, and facilities. Thought it may not seem like a big deal I find the fact that two different Kehilla’s which are so diverse can co-exist in such harmony to unfortunately be more of the exception and not the status quo.

I would like to share the following brief narrative that took place during simchas Torah last year during the 3rd Hakafah (the annual Suburban – Darchei Hakafah). I experienced such a profound moment of Jewish unity that it had a lasting effect on my personal outlook.

Over in Suburban's parking lot during the 3rd hakafah of simchas torah last year, our kehilla was singing Malchuscha (or Malchutcha) over and over again. Approaching our group of white knitted yalmukah’s came a sea of black hats from Darchei Tzedek with their sifrei torah. As if merging into one congregation the blackhats became mixed with knitted yalmukas and as if by perfect design one could see a perfect homogeny of jews. Black hat followed by kipa sruga, followed by black hat followed by kippah sruga. The yeshvish nigun that was being sung by the Darchei crowd immediately changed to the more universal maluchuscha that was being sung by the suburbanites. Most impressive to watch were the two Rabanim of the respective shuls, Rabbi Silber and Rabbi Horowitz who both gave each other a warm smile and embraced each other like two long lost brothers. They danced arm in arm like the respective members of their shuls celebrating the splendor and glory of the torah.

The climax of moment was the unified singing of Bshanah habah byiruhalayim - next year in Jersulam. Here you have 2 very different groups of people who both have very different views of what this song means, yet they dance together as one people “am echad Blev Echad”. (one people one heart) The most touching scene at the end is when the two rabanim continued to dance together, Rav Horowitz moving across the street toward Darchei, Rabbi Silber accompanying him as to accord him the maximum amount of respect possible. Where it not for Rav Horowitz's insistence on separating himself so as not to take Rabbi silber across seven mile and away from his Kehilla, I truly believe the two of them would be dancing together at this very moment.

It is very easy for us to look at the exterior and say "I can't associate with them", they are not like me, I can never imagine myself like that. But really beneath the thin exterior we are part of one greater People, with one unified Soul.

The next time I am tempted to be disparaging toward my fellow Jew, I will close my eyes and take myself back to the Suburban-Darchei Hakafah. Where for 10 minutes we were not 2 shuls divided by a hashkafah and seven mile lane. But one greater Kehillah united by one torah and one creator.